Tuesday, April 1, 2008

!!!!! AXE'D FINALLY !!!!

My advice to you is to get married. If you find a good wife, you'll be happy; if not, you'll become a philosopher --- Socrates
Hmmm, so now starts the roller coaster, time will tell whether I would end up a happy person or become a philosopher. Trust me hard to believe that I would be either of them, I guess we need to modify the statement to add a third category, don't ask what it should; I don't have an ounce of an idea as to what it is going to be.

Coming to the point, well I guess its pretty clear what I'm talking about. So yes folks the axe finally fell and from now on its gonna be wait and watch how well its going to be. So, far starters, she is named Vaidehi, graduated in Science. Her interests include listening music, singing, doing a bit of creative work. If I were to comment on her looks, well she isn't all that drop dead gorgeous, but she has these girl next door looks, one that will definitely encourage you for a second look. Has most of the qualities that I have always searched for in a women; tall, fair, with a set of expressive eyes. I first met her or rather saw her at a marriage that I attended last weekend, one look at this girl and I felt she was special and then I commissioned my mom to get deeper into this and the outcome, well its pretty evident.

Thankfully for me it wasn't a time consuming process, since I had seen her and liked her, the only glitch was the lady's acceptance and once that done it wasn't going to be anything but the obvious. It was the this weekend that I spoke to her the first time and my GOD, while I was all the time busy getting immersed in her looks, her voice was a surprise something like the sweet sound made when water falls from the heights. I know I'm probably being a bit over expressive but certainly there was magic in her voice, courteousy her training in classical singing. We had a casual chat on what we felt about each other and kind of learnt few things about each other. Now with all this done the ball finally fell with the heads of the family who had to find out our so called compatibility chart and thankfully it didn't play a party pooper(Would I cared if it did?).

So that means its the start of a new chapter, a chapter where I will turn from a guy who held and loved his own space, freedom has to make way for someone who's gonna share all these and much more starting some time on a permanent basis. Its the time where I have to start learning to live outside of my own world, get adapted to be with someone all the time, share things with her. Well its gonna be tough times for sure to be able to adjust to such a paradigm shift but then I have bought time to get used to such things. That is I have strictly instructed for a no hush up marriage rather to have it later in the year so that we have time understanding each other before we get into the wedlock. So that's been the it of this story and if you have made it till here you certainly need to be bestowed with some privilege, so go ahead and take a look at how my other half looks like :
For the Privileged